Tarek Ali looks at “White vs. Black Pride? Why Is the Gay Community Segregated?”
So he asks why there has to be a Black Pride and a Trans Pride, but no White Pride. (There is a Straight Pride, which gets pretty silly.)
Most of what he says is familiar, but I have never, in modern times, run into clubs with dress codes or music intended to exclude black people. (This used to be true back in the 1970s.)
He says that stating exclusions in dating preferences on sites is “wrong”. I don’t use the sites. I do have an issue if people aggressively approach me in clubs to get me to dance and I am not interested – because of the idea of “no spectators”. But yet, in practice, my own tastes as to what I would want for an intimate partner is rather exclusive, but by now that is a moot point.